- "Couples Linking" lets couples in open relationships join profiles
- The feature makes it easier for singles looking to join polyamorous couples
"Couples Linking" is a new feature that lets couples join their profiles. The feature is open to people who identify as "seeing someone," "married" or "in an open relationship" and are looking for others to join their relationship. The feature will also help singles looking to join an open relationship by identifying non-monogamous couples in searches.
The addition was welcomed by many who identify as non-monogamous or polyamorous, terms broadly used to describe people openly involved in relationships with more than one person. These communities already consider OkCupid the most welcoming of the major dating sites for already having settings to accommodate them.
Polyamorous people have trouble finding like-minded potential mates on most mainstream dating sites simply because there's no way to search for them, said sex educator Anita Illig Wagner, founder of Practical Polyamory
. And, monogamous people don't always appreciate being approached blindly with an invitation into an open relationship.
"It's a very big deal and I'm delighted that OkCupid has gotten this far with it," she said. "I hope other sites take it seriously and we find ourselves welcome in even more major websites."
OkCupid made "open relationship" and "non-monogamous" options for relationship status in 2014 and added 12 sexual orientation and 22 gender options
, all believed to be firsts for a major dating site.
"You want to meet people like you so having the site identify you as non-monogamous is a very big deal," said Pepper Mint, a San Francisco-based advocate for non-monogamy who organizes poly-friendly events.
The new feature also looks promising for "couples dating," he said -- two people looking for someone together without having to create a joint profile.
There's no good measure of the amount of people who identify as non-monogamous or polyamorous because it's still a small group, Mint said. But as the concept becomes